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How To Meet
and Date Younger Women... Dean Cortez
If you'd like to be dating
and sleeping with beautiful younger women,
the first and most important mindset you need to have is that women actually LIKE older men.
Over the past 200-plus years, the United States government
has been taking statistics for the age of couples getting
married. Every year, there is a slightly wider gap between
the ages of women and men who marry each other. That's
right; women have ALWAYS gone for older men.
There are evolutionary reasons for this. Women are
programmed to seek security and safety, which provide the
best means to raise a child, and it's a safe bet that an
older man will have increased world knowledge, and other
important assets including personal skills and greater life
experience.
Society seems to force the view that it's older men who are
chasing younger women, and that may be true to some extent,
in more cases it’s the women who are looking to date older
men. The second part of the proper mindset is knowing that
if you dedicate yourself to pickup and really get into it,
within two years you will be having more fun with women,
and enjoying more sex than most guys get in their entire
lifetime.
The average guy only has sex with 4-7 women in his entire
lifetime, although that's certainly not the story that the
media seems to push onto guys. That means you can be a
virgin at 50, and as long as you’re able to fight through
your internal barriers, change your beliefs and ideas, and
take action, within a few years (or even months) you can
have a lifetime worth of fun. The key idea is to get
started straight away, and lose the EXCUSES.
Treat the next few months as practice, and tell yourself
that it will be a fun learning experience. Don’t ever think
that it’s “too late,” or that you’ve struggled with women
for too long for you to make a dramatic change.
If you have the mindset that you still have plenty of time
left—and the truth is, you do—you are likely to take action
and feel less guilty and filled with regret (big energy
killers). You’ll be more relaxed, and you’re more likely to
STAY motivated.
On the other hand, if you feel anxious and urgent because
you
“need to make up for lost time,” women are going to smell that desperation like cheap cologne.
Real Techniques:
1 - Convey Youth How you convey your age is more important than the number of years you’ve been on this planet. By this, I mean be happy, have a youthful smile, and enjoy life. And certainly look at your jeans. (Yes, I’m serious!) In fact, go and look at some new jeans this week. I always see older guys wearing totally unfashionable jeans, and it’s one of the most obvious indicators that they have an old, out-of-touch mentality. Also take a cold, hard look at your hairstyle and wardrobe, and look to update them a bit. If you are happy, carefree, and loving life—and your wardrobe and personal style convey a youthful, fashionable edge—this is bound to make younger women notice. 2 - Be Fun
I often coach older guys who are a bit too serious. Picture
four young women out on Friday night, having a good time,
relaxing after a big week at work. They just want to kick
back and have fun with a few drinks. If a guy starts
talking with them about serious topics that lower their
energy level, it’s just not going to fly.
Women generally like older guys because they provide much
more interesting conversation, and because they’re not
predictable and one-dimensional like younger guys often
are. The typical 25-year-old woman is more emotionally
mature than the guys her age, and for this reason, she
often finds herself more intrigued by older men.
But there is a time and a place for being serious. Imagine
what it feels like when you go from working hard at your
job for months on end, and then taking a holiday and
kicking back on a beach. This is the laidback, carefree
type of energy you want to bring to your interactions with
younger women. If you are having trouble lightening up and
chilling out when you get involved in conversations with
women, take a closer look at your reality and your
lifestyle.
If your reality and lifestyle are completely filled with
work and seriousness, then it can be pretty difficult to
instantly switch into “fun” mode when you’re out meeting
women. “Serious” guys tend to watch serious movies and
television shows (including a lot of TV news and politics,
which can be quite depressing), and listen to music that
isn’t in tune with the tastes of the younger generation.
I suggest you switch up the types of shows, movies and
music that you normally feel comfortable with. Try
some TV shows like “Scrubs,” “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” and
“The Office,” which aren’t particularly deep or meaningful
but are laugh-out-loud funny. Buy some magazines that
are playful and fun. Listen to some music that is new and
maybe a little trashy.
This also gives you fun conversational topics to talk to
women about. That hot 25-year-old babe at the bar might
know a surprising amount about politics, but that doesn’t
mean she wants to talk about it when she’s unwinding with a
few drinks. Save the deeper discussions for once
you’re dating her.
Her first impression of you should be fun, playful and
youthful. Some guys need to make a concerted effort to add
some light stuff into their reality, so that being playful
and relaxed around women isn’t such a challenge. When
you talk to your friends, make an effort to not dwell on
the serious stuff, and get in the habit of just being able
to talk about stuff that is not that important and does not
matter in the big picture of things.
3 - Go Out
As guys get older, their social circles tend to shrink.
Your friends get married, have kids, and are immersed in
their own lives. Or maybe you’ve moved recently and haven’t
developed much of a social scene in your new city. Perhaps
you just don’t go out much anymore, because you feel a
little too “old” to be hanging around at the bars and clubs
like you used to. This may seem obvious, but you must get
out of the house and make an effort to socialize.
Maybe combine your socializing with an interest or hobby.
Personal development groups always seem to be filled with
attractive women.
If you’ve always been shy, then it’s time to shake that off
and become more social. Make it one of your goals to make
at least two people feel good about themselves, every week.
This will lead to a multitude of friends, and people liking
you.
Break any patterns of judging people, or staying in your
shell, and make an effort to say hello and make
friendships. You'd be surprised how easy it is to do once
you get started.
Specific Age-Related Issues
Do you lie about your age, or tell the truth? It's best to
tell the truth, but in my opinion, you don't have to tell
her your age straight away.
Women may want all the information on you immediately, but
you don't have a responsibility to tell her everything
upfront and in the first few minutes, or even hours.
Use intrigue, and reveal things about yourself over
time. If every time she hangs out with you, you reveal
some new talent or hobby of yours, she’ll be endlessly
curious and interested in knowing more about you. This is
much more effective than reeling off your list of
accomplishments and interests in the first thirty minutes
you spend talking to her. Women will often use standard job
interview-type questions when they first meet a man—such as
your age, your job,
where you live, etc.
It’s better to bypass this “Q&A” and engage women on a
fun,
more creative level. Stimulate that side of her, and don’t cater to her analytical and probing side—where she’s asking the questions, you’re trying to come up with the “right” answers, and she’s running it all through her mental computer and figuring out whether you’re the type of guy she should be interested in.
Now if you're reading this right now and you would like to
learn more 'secrets' on how to get a younger woman to come
home with you AND come inside with you after a date, how to
get her "turned on", and how to smoothly take things to a
"physical level" in a way that she'll enjoy, then you
SERIOUSLY should check this out... because inside, you'll
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
Dean Cortez is the author of several pickup and dating advice programs for men, including Mack Tactics and Bad Boy Seduction. For his Dating Younger Women program, he calls in some of the "big-guns" of the Pickup Community for a little extra success with younger women firepower. |
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