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“The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About
It...”
Here Are The Top Ten
Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And
How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One
Of These Deadly Common
Mistakes...
-By David DeAngelo, Author
Of “Double Your
Dating”
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice
Guy”
Have you ever noticed that
the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted "nice"
guys?
Of course you
have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had
attractive female friends that always
seemed to date "jerks"... but for some
reason they were never romantically
interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on
how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men
they do because they feel a powerful GUT
LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL
that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman
CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot
of logical sense, and it's hard to
ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to
act on it, you'll NEVER have the success
with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when
they meet a woman that they REALLY
like... but she's just
notinterested?
Right! They try to
"convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL
NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT
COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel
differently about you with "logic and
reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you,
how in the world do you expect to change
that FEELING by being "reasonable" with
her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we
beg, plead, chase, and do our best to
change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To
Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please
women (which we mistakenly think will
make them like us), us guys are
always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or
"permission".
Another HORRIBLE
idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types
of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for
them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman
well means "always getting her approval and
permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for
approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men
who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman
if Wussy guys who chase her around and want
her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy”
Her Affection With Food And
Gifts
How many times have you
taken a woman out to a nice dinner,
bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't
treat her even HALF as well as you
did?
If you're like me, then
you've had it happen a
LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this
happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a
clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who
I am, so I'm going to try to buy your
attention and affection". Your good
intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak
attempts at manipulation. That's right, I
said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate
mistake that most men make with women
is sharing how they "feel" too early
on.
Attractive women are
rare.
And they get a LOT of
attention from men.
Most
men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or
another ALL THE
An attractive woman is often
approached several times a DAY by men
who are interested. This translate
into dozens of times per week, and
often HUNDREDS of times per
month.
And
guess what?
Attractive women have
usually dated a LOT of
men.
That's right. They have
EXPERIENCE.
They know what to
expect.
And one thing that turns an
attractive women off and sends her
running away faster than just about
anything is a guy who starts saying
"You know, I really, REALLY like you"
after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman
that you're just like all the other
guys who fall for her too fast... and
can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back.
Relax.
There's a much better
way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting”
How Attraction Works For
Women
Women are VERY different
from men when it comes to
ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this
fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy
woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual
attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men
based mostly on looks? Or is something else
going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over
five full years now, I can tell you that
women usually have their "attraction
mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than
looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot
more average and unattractive men with
beautiful women than the other way
around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain
qualities in men... and they're attracted
to the way a man makes them FEEL than they
are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body
language and communication correctly, you
can make women feel the same kind of
powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to
LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That
It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common
mistakes that guys make is giving up
before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive
women are only interested in men who
have looks and money... or guys who
are a certain height... or guys who
are a certain age.
And sure, there are some
women who are only interested in
these things.
But MOST women are far more interested
in a man's personality than his wallet or
his looks.
There are personality traits that
attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how
to use them, YOU can be one of these
guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman
just because you aren't rich, tall, or
handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know
how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women
feel the same kind of powerful sexual
attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that
it's a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic
that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY
THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women
to like them by doing whatever the woman
wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that
they can walk all over... Women aren't
attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your
mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what
you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better
than men at reading body language. That's
ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But
for example, if you're out on a date with a
woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do
and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just
sit there looking at her and getting
nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women
and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number,
asking her out, kissing her, getting
physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each
situation, you will probably screw it up...
and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know
EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next
with a woman... from the first meeting, all
the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting
HELP
This is the biggest mistake
of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men
from EVER having the kind of success with
women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make
themselves look weak or helpless. We don't
like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and
how I figured out how to be successful with
women...
About five years ago I became fed up
with the fact that I didn't know how to
approach, meet, and get dates with women
that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I
saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just
couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can
still remember that night... right on the
spot I made the decision to do whatever it
took to learn how to be successful with
women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and
trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally
figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman
and get her number almost instantly. I've
dated models, I've dated actresses, and
I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as
well.
It has been a very rewarding experience.
I no longer feel that sick, insecure
feeling... like I don't know how to meet
women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go
out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and
I've done seminars on both coasts of the
United States... and taught tens of
thousands of men all around the world.
I Now Have A FREE,
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Oh, And One More
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Well, that's not the
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And I'll talk to you again
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Your Friend,
David
DeAngelo
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