Even Players Fall In Love...

You already know this but let's expose a myth about dating gurus once and for all, just in case you forgot.

Despite the titles of their books and programs which always reek of sex and seduction, dating gurus know very well that most men are NOT looking to seduce a different babe every night or roll into some club and score with some HOT blonde stripper.

Dating gurus are fully aware that the vast majority of men just want to find and attract a few high quality women into their lives and eventually find that special one that stands above all the rest.

By the way, don't forget that anyone who teaches dating or seduction advice is a dating guru, whethery they are pickup artists, players, macks, or pimps. If they're teaching it, they are dating gurus. Like it or not

Anyway, there's a myth that goes around that dating gurus are somehow exempt from this universal longing for someone to love. Which they are not.

But let's face it...SEX and beautiful women are still the MOST powerful advertising componets around.  And the dating gurus DO have books, programs, and boot camps to sell. So their advertising and content had better sizzle! It's all a part of marketing, so don't sweat it. It's not unethical or underhanded. You would do the same thing if you had a dating guidebook to sell.

That said, here's how dating gurus REALLY feel:

"Healthy relationships are VITAL to living a happy life. Nothing can compare to the company of good woman you love. In the end, I think that's all any man wants. The world could end tomorrow, and all we'd want today is to find solace in our lover's arms." -- Joseph Mathews, The Art of Approaching

"I think that most guys want to be good guys. I think most guys want a relationship ultimately with a great woman. I think they want to treat women well and be honest, good communicators. I think that's what they all want. In my seminars I've said, 'Raise your hands if this is what you want...a relationship with a great woman. Not to be a player who's abusive, mean, and selfish--you really want to be good--to be a good guy.' And most of the guys raise their hands. But what I teach them is that they have to first learn about attraction, and how to be different in a specific set of ways so they can catch a woman's attention..."

--David DeAngelo, Interviews With Dating Gurus, Marie Forleo

"It's not so much the fact that you have to manipulate girls--I don't believe in doing that--and it's not that you're going out with all these girls because you want to be a stud or anything like that. It's because it's [David's Insider Internet Dating program] going to prepare you for when you meet someone you REALLY want, so you don't make the same stupid mistakes that we all make each and every time because you've gotten that out of the way and you know what you're doing. And that's what this is all about, it's just getting you to the point where you know what your doing--not using manipulative things like you may have done in the past. You're going to be in control of what you're doing."

--David M., Insider Internet Dating

"I'm assuming that your desire is to meet women with whom you might form meaningful relationships, not bodies to seduce, hurt, and then desert."

--Leil Lowndes, Underecover Sex Signals--A Pickup Guide For Guys, page 20

 

"I had mastered these skills for attracting women, so why was I still so unhappy? You see, I got sidetracked. When I started to learn the methods for being successful with women, I got seduced into the chase. I had forgotten that what I truly wanted was companionship, intimacy, and love."

--Stephen Nash, How To Get A Girlfriend, page 5

The bottom line is this...dating gurus know what you really want. But they also know that you'll have to learn how attraction really works and be willing to step up to the plate in order to GET it! So they rightfully teach you how to score with women and leave the falling in love with the right person to you...