Even Pickup Artists Fall In Love...

Ok...it's time to expose a myth about dating gurus and pickup artists. Despite the titles of their books and programs which always seem to reek of sex and seduction, most dating gurus and pickup artists know very well that most men are NOT looking to seduce a different babe every night or roll into some club and score with some blonde stripper.

Dating gurus and pickup artists are fully aware that most men just want to find and attract a few high quality women into their lives and eventually find that special one that stands above all the rest. The truth is, so do they...

But let's face it...SEX is still the MOST powerful advertising angle. And the dating gurus DO have books, programs, and boot camps to sell. So they also know that their advertising and content had better sizzle!

Besides, most dating gurus realize that the attraction techniques they teach can actually help men reach their relationship goals a lot faster than the typical relationship how-to advice. So if it takes some scintillating titles and content to take the message out to the masses, they're gonna do it.

But just realize that deep down, a lot of these guys--and gals--aren't as seduction oriented as they seem. In fact, here's what a few gurus had to say:

"I think that most guys want to be good guys. I think most guys want a relationship ultimately with a great woman. I think they want to treat women well and be honest, good communicators. I think that's what they all want. In my seminars I've said, 'Raise your hands if this is what you want...a relationship with a great woman. Not to be a player who's abusive, mean, and selfish--you really want to be good--to be a good guy.' And most of the guys raise their hands. But what I teach them is that they have to first learn about attraction, and how to be different in a specific set of ways so they can catch a woman's attention..."

--David DeAngelo, Interviews With Dating Gurus, Marie Forleo

"It's not so much the fact that you have to manipulate girls--I don't believe in doing that--and it's not that you're going out with all these girls because you want to be a stud or anything like that. It's because it's [David's Insider Internet Dating program] going to prepare you for when you meet someone you REALLY want, so you don't make the same stupid mistakes that we all make each and every time because you've gotten that out of the way and you know what you're doing. And that's what this is all about, it's just getting you to the point where you know what your doing--not using manipulative things like you may have done in the past. You're going to be in control of what you're doing."

--David M., Insider Internet Dating

"I'm assuming that your desire is to meet women with whom you might form meaningful relationships, not bodies to seduce, hurt, and then desert."

--Leil Lowndes, Underecover Sex Signals--A Pickup Guide For Guys, page 20

 

"I had mastered these skills for attracting women, so why was I still so unhappy? You see, I got sidetracked. When I started to learn the methods for being successful with women, I got seduced into the chase. I had forgotten that what I truly wanted was companionship, intimacy, and love."

--Stephen Nash, How To Get A Girlfriend, page 5

The bottom line is this...dating gurus know what you really want. But they also know that you'll have to learn how attraction really works and be willing to step up to the plate in order to GET what you want!